Can you stand alone, solid, and on your own two feet?
The amount of love we have to give is equal to the amount don't need anybody else.

When you define your self on your relationships, on your friends and on family, you kick the foundation from beneath yourself and end up leaning like a broken pillar against a bunch of other broken pillars.
Be the pillar which will not fall with the rest.

This means non-reliance and true self sufficiency.

Love thus comes in the form of unguarded support, as a stable ground which people can rely on.

The pillar unsupported is the only supported pillar.


A strong society is built of many individual unsupported pillars.